The Perfect Wedding Gifts for Attendants and Family Members

Allyson Brooks
5 days ago
4 min read

A thoughtful guide to choosing meaningful gifts for the people who have been there for you through it all

There comes a moment in every wedding planning journey when you pause and think about the people who have stood by you through thick and thin. The friends who said yes to every dress fitting, the parents who encouraged you, the sibling who drove three hours to help with a DIY project, or the aunt who has been cheering for you since the start.

This might be an unpopular opinion, but we believe your wedding day is not only about you. It’s also about the people who helped raise you, supported you, and made you into the person you are today.

When couples ask us for guidance on the perfect wedding gifts for attendants and family members, we always say the same thing. Choose gifts that feel intentional, personal, and connected to the relationship you share.

At The Social Edit, we believe that the true success of a gift is found in meaning. Let us help you choose gifts that feel heartfelt, elegant, and unforgettable.

Gifts for Bridesmaids and Maid of Honor

Bridesmaids play a huge role in your engagement season, from planning events to standing next to you at the altar. Here are thoughtful ideas they will truly use and cherish.

Luxury Inspired Bridesmaid Gift Ideas

Personalized jewelry for wedding day wear
Silk pajamas or robes for getting ready
Customized tote bags or weekender bags (our personal favs!)
Makeup bags filled with high-end makeup or skincare essentials
Spa gift cards or a curated self care kit
A framed photo from years of friendship
Monogrammed water bottles or tumblers
Engraved hairbrush or handheld mirror
Personalized candles that match your wedding scent

How to choose the right bridesmaid gifts

Think of items that align with your wedding morning aesthetic
Choose gifts they can enjoy after the wedding
Add a handwritten note for a personal touch

Gifts for Groomsmen and Best Man

Groomsmen gifts often balance practicality with sentiment. Here are ideas that feel polished, stylish, and genuinely useful.

Classic and Modern Groomsmen Gift Ideas

Customized flasks or barware
Monogrammed cufflinks or tie clips
High-quality grooming or shave kits
Personalized leather wallets or card holders
Engraved pocket knives or multi tools
A favorite bottle of bourbon or whiskey
Monogrammed dopp bags (our groomsmen still use theirs to this day!)
Matching socks or accessories for the wedding day

Tips for choosing groomsmen gifts

Think of their personality and lifestyle
Aim for high quality items they can use beyond the wedding
Keep the presentation clean and elegant

Gifts for Parents

Parents often carry deep emotions on wedding day. They may be reflecting on years of memories, milestones, and the journey that brought you to this moment. You can play on this with the gifts you select for each of them.

Meaningful Gift Ideas for Parents

Custom handkerchiefs with heartfelt messages
Engraved jewelry or cufflinks
A framed wedding day photo delivered after the event
A book of childhood memories or a custom photo album
A heartfelt letter or beautifully framed poem
Matching robes or slippers for the morning
Personalized tie featuring a childhood photo on the back. (Our founder, Ally, did this for her dad and he loved it!)

Why these gifts matter

Parents don’t need something complicated, and they certainly don’t need more trinkets. Get them something sentimental that acknowledges their love and support throughout your life. Meaning outweighs monetary value every time.

Gifts for Siblings, Grandparents, and Close Family

These are often the people who quietly support you behind the scenes. Giving them something special on your wedding day can create a meaningful moment where they feel like a valuable part of your life.